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Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Nursing Homes: Nursing homes provide short-and long-term care for seniors who have physical or mental health conditions that require 24-hour nursing and personal care.
We are a 240 bed skilled nursing facility located on Long Island's South Shore. We offer subacute rehab services which offer residents the opportunity to optimize their daily functioning. We also offer long term care.  We have a specialized Young Adult Unit and an Alzheimer's...
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I was a bit hesitant and apprehensive in the beginning because of the situation that had occurred years ago. But I took a chance and decided to get my Rehab at Medford. TO my surprise, this facility was...
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Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Nursing Homes: Nursing homes provide short-and long-term care for seniors who have physical or mental health conditions that require 24-hour nursing and personal care.
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Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
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Provides: Memory Care, Nursing Homes
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Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Nursing Homes: Nursing homes provide short-and long-term care for seniors who have physical or mental health conditions that require 24-hour nursing and personal care.
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Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living, Senior Apartments
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
A non-profit Continuing Care Retirement Community, Jefferson’s Ferry’s residents fully enjoy retirement without worrying about market swings, future health care needs, chores or maintenance. Sponsored by the Mather/St. Charles Health Alliance, Jefferson’s Ferry boasts three levels of living: 248...
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
The Bove Health Center at Jefferson’s Ferry, a not-for-profit community sponsored by the Mather/St. Charles Health Alliance, offers the highest level of independence possible for residents needing daily assistance. The 60 private enriched housing apartments are available for both short and...
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They offer daily activities and they encourage my father in law to participate. He loves the food and the community is clean and well maintained. The staff are nice and are there for you with whatever you...
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Memory Care, Nursing Homes
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Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Nursing Homes: Nursing homes provide short-and long-term care for seniors who have physical or mental health conditions that require 24-hour nursing and personal care.
Water’s Edge Center for Health and Rehabilitation is licensed by the State of Connecticut as a Skilled Nursing Facility, which offers separate and distinct units for Short-Term Subacute Rehabilitation, Alzheimer's and Dementia Care, Hospice Care, Respite Care, as well as traditional Long Term...
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
East Ridge Manor is an assisted living community located in the historic town of Meriden, CT. Situated in New Haven County, half way between New Haven and Hartford, Meriden is home to some of the most beautiful views in the state. At East Ridge Residential Care, you can be sure that the staff's...
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Sheltering Arms is a retirement care residence for men and women 60 years of age and older which offers a less restrictive but dignified alternative for seniors who could benefit from supervised living. Residents spend their “golden years” in comfort enjoying companionship, home style meals,...
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Memory Care
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Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
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Provides: Memory Care
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Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
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Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
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Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
A Pleasant Home Alternative for the ElderlyToday’s challenge in the long-term care business is to create suitable shelter and care solutions to meet the steadily increasing needs of an elderly community of people who can no longer remain totally independent but who do not require nursing care.The...
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.

Cost of assisted living in Southold, NY

The average cost of senior living in Southold is $9,420 per month. Cheaper nearby regions include Remsenburg-Speonk, NY with an average of $5,021 per month.

Average monthly cost of Assisted Living in Southold, NY vs. nearby cities

Southold, NY
$9,420/mo

Average monthly cost of Assisted Living in Southold, NY vs. the state and national average

Southold, NY
$9,420/mo
U.S. national average
$4,515/mo

Average monthly cost of Assisted Living in Southold vs. other types of senior living

Assisted Living
$9,420/mo
$9,686/mo

Median monthly costs of Assisted Living in Southold, NY by room type

Semi-Private
$6,165/mo
Private
$4,700/mo
Studio
$6,204/mo
1 Bedroom
$6,582/mo
2 Bedroom
$7,547/mo
Detached Cottage/Bungalow
$4,250/mo

Ways to pay for Assisted Living in Southold, NY

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What families are saying about assisted living in Southold

Recent reviews for assisted living in Southold

The Village at South Farms in Middletown, CT

4.6
I would recommend The Village at South Farms to others looking.

The Bristal at East Northport

4.5
The staff at the East Northport Bristal is always kind. They always have a smile on their faces and are genuinely sweet and loving to my mom. The facility is ALWAYS spotless and beautiful to live in or visit. The only area I see occasional improvement for is the food. It is not always hot and ...
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Whisper Woods of Smithtown

4.9
The community is beautiful and well maintained. The staff is friendly, helpful and attentive. The nursing staff is on top of all the residents healthcare needs. There are plenty of activities to interest everyone. Our family feels blessed to have found this Assisted Living to care for our ...
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Southold review score based on 609 family reviews

8.5
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This proprietary review score is based on 609 reviews of 144 Southold assisted living communities. All reviews were submitted in the past two years by verified community residents and family members.
The Southold review score informs your search by letting you see at a glance how assisted living residents and family members rate assisted living in your area. Compare review scores in multiple locations to understand how overall satisfaction rates differ from city to city. Based on recent reviews, the maximum possible score is 10.Methodology: How we calculate our city review scores

Southold review score compared against nearby cities

8.5
Southold, NY144 facilities
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Review subcategories for Southold assisted living

When assisted living residents and family members submit a review on our site, they rate each community on categories such as cleanliness, activities, meals, and more. The chart below is based on 609 reviews of 144 Southold assisted living communities. This chart helps you compare Southold resident and family assisted living satisfaction rates against national averages. Use it to assess your needs and develop criteria for your own search. If you know that one of these categories is important to you or your loved one, our senior living advisors can help you find communities to match your needs.
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Cleanliness
4.7
4.5
Friendliness
4.7
4.6
Care services
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4.2
Staff
4.6
4.5
Meals & dining
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Activities
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Southold assisted living services and amenities

These charts highlight some of the many care, dining, and entertainment offerings available in Southold assisted living communities. They don’t represent all possible services and amenities available at assisted living communities in Southold, but support comparisons against nationwide offerings. Our Senior Living Advisors can help you find communities that fit your preferences.

Availability of select care services in Southold assisted living

Assisted living communities offer a variety of care services and visiting health care providers to meet seniors’ health needs. The chart below shows the percentage of assisted living partners in Southold that offer these care services compared to the percentage of partners that offer them nationally.
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Full medication management
Full medication management
52.9%
43.3%
Doctor on call
Doctor on call
39.5%
28.4%
24-Hour awake staff
24-Hour awake staff
83.4%
85.2%
Diabetic care
Diabetic care
91.7%
85.6%
*Visiting health care professionals
*Visiting health care professionals
59.9%
48.4%
Home care agency on-site
Home care agency on-site
29.3%
25.5%
Non-ambulatory care
Non-ambulatory care
84.7%
85.4%
Respite or short term stays
Respite or short term stays
49.7%
39.9%
Hospice available on-site
Hospice available on-site
58%
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Availability of select dementia care services in Southold assisted living

Our community partners provide many services to keep residents with dementia or other memory concerns safe and engaged. Below, take a look at what percentage of Southold Assisted Living partners offer the selected dementia care services compared to the percentage of partners nationally.
Southold, NYNational
Dementia behaviors care
Dementia behaviors care
51%
43.7%
Specialized memory care training for staff
Specialized memory care training for staff
36.9%
27.2%
Secured community and/or wander guard
Secured community and/or wander guard
52.2%
34.1%
Memory care only community
Memory care only community
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11.5%
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Availability of select dietary accommodations in Southold assisted living

Assisted living communities help seniors maintain a balanced diet by accommodating their health needs, allergies, and other restrictions. Below you’ll find the percentage of Southold partners making specific dietary accommodations for seniors compared to the percentage of assisted living partners making those accommodations nationally.
Southold, NYNational
Nutritionist / dietician
Nutritionist / dietician
30.6%
22.4%
Low / no sodium
Low / no sodium
44.6%
33.8%
No sugar
No sugar
41.4%
31.2%
Vegetarian
Vegetarian
39.5%
29.7%
Pureed meals
Pureed meals
14%
10.8%
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Availability of select dining options in Southold assisted living

Our assisted living communities know that seniors want top-quality meals and options for how they dine. The chart below indicates the percentage of Southold communities that offer dining options to their discerning residents compared to our partners nationally.
Southold, NYNational
Professional chef
Professional chef
42%
26%
Restaurant style dining
Restaurant style dining
43.9%
34.3%
Room service
Room service
35%
29.8%
Anytime dining
Anytime dining
19.1%
14.7%
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Availability of select programs and activities in Southold assisted living

Senior living communities offer a variety of programming to keep seniors socially, mentally, and physically vibrant. The chart below shows what percentage of partnered assisted living communities in Southold offer the selected activities, amenities, and programs compared to the percentage of partners nationwide.
Southold, NYNational
Activity director
Activity director
43.3%
38.9%
Pet-focused programs
Pet-focused programs
36.3%
26.1%
Community service programs
Community service programs
36.9%
25.3%
Devotional activities on-site
Devotional activities on-site
45.9%
42.2%
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
49.7%
41.4%
Outings / off-site activities
Outings / off-site activities
55.4%
44.5%
Piano or organ
Piano or organ
41.4%
34.6%
Arts and crafts center
Arts and crafts center
38.9%
28.4%
Educational speakers / life long learning
Educational speakers / life long learning
44.6%
31.5%
Clubs / games / karaoke
Clubs / games / karaoke
49%
39.2%
Live performances
Live performances
47.8%
39.5%
Dances
Dances
35.7%
24.7%
Fitness center
Fitness center
31.8%
20.3%
Fitness classes
Fitness classes
49%
38.5%
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State regulations for assisted living in Southold

Safety is a primary concern when seniors and their families look for assisted living. Each state has its own laws and inspection processes to ensure seniors reside in a safe environment. Learning about New York assisted living regulations will help you understand how assisted living communities in Southold protect seniors.

Learn about New York Assisted Living regulations

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Spring Village at Stratford, Colebrook Village at Hebron and The Watermark at 3030 Park, a CCRC are the top-rated assisted living facilities near Southold, New York. See full list of communities.

There are 155 assisted living facilities near Southold, New York. See the full list.

The best assisted living facilities near you in Southold, New York are Spring Village at Stratford, Colebrook Village at Hebron and The Watermark at 3030 Park, a CCRC. These assisted living communities received the highest rankings based on verified family reviews.

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